DON’T AVOID THE LIFE HAZADS
DON’T AVOID THE LIFE HAZADS
Difficulties give you strength. Behind every dark night there is a bright moon. Problems and hard days are the ways to take you to the brighter one. Success story reveals like that only. A work which is started with difficulty and problematic situation will be succeeded definitely. During this period of panic situation the at most need to anyone is patience. Plan a device which can you save you from the problem and you can win over that. And planning is only possible in the silent and peaceful mind. Certain worries may take you to hale. Hazards come first then success. Lightening comes first then thunder. Black cloud comes first, then only cold rain. Life is like that only. The conscious person wins over this life if he knows the mystery and stupid one is often defeated. Watch the life and see the same principles revolve around you. No need of sorrow or worries.
Take the life as challenge. Take the decision and do the thing which is indispensable to you. Don’t feel absurd. Nothing new principles i.e., hazard before a success is being propagated here. That is the true of life. Always weigh what is important. Then take risk of yourself. To progress is to risk. To risk is to challenge. And to challenge is to life. The life without challenge has no life. Every story starts with mystery and ends with a solution.
Just think about the rain. Before the rain when the black clouds surrounds the sky, everybody start fearing, turns towards their home, close up their doors and windows but when this black clouds turn into cool air and rain, everybody became happy. Their hearts start dancing. That’s the mystery of life. Who does understand he wins others fail.
Build your home by the bricks thrown by anybody to you.Fightings makes nothings.Work silently and gets your success. Where there is way there is surely a way.
Harekrushna Behera
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Men And Women Are Equal – Let’s Compete
Since the early days of human subsistence, "men and women are equal" was not a claim. Men, even in those days, were expected to provide for the subsistence of every woman in his life. Additionally, in modern times, men were made legally liable to provide for the subsistence of their were wives or companions in life. Men confront the same obligation with daughters until they find a man willing to become morally, socially, and legally liable for their subsistence. As expected, deeply embbeded instincts tell men that they must inescapably find means of survival for themselves, their women, and their families.
It is obvious that men are the ones morally obligated, socially mandated, and legally forced to be responsible for other people's subsistence. However, women are not. Women have never been ~and because they are females~ they will never be socially mandated and legally forced to be responsible for other people's subsistence.
To help those who are the core of the human specie, nature's architect made men to be hunters, and to think like one. Appropriately, men were designed to have the physical qualities and mental powers as well as suitable features, attributes, capabilities, skills, and a corresponding set of instincts to do a competent and capable job competing for survival with other men.
Men and women are equal just like cows and horses can swim.
Yes, cows and horses can swim. It is highly unlikely, however, that the designer of nature wanted these outstanding creatures be able to enter fish' territories ~such as rivers, lakes, or oceans~ and compete with fish taking sources of survival away from them. It is likely, however, that cows' and horses' were given the ability to swim to save their lives in case of an emergency such as massive flooding; otherwise, cows and horses must remain where they belong: on land; and fish be given physical qualities as well as suitable features, attributes, capabilities, skills, and a set of instincts to do a competent and capable job competing for survival with other fish in their rightful territory.
It was in the late XX century when western women decided to invade men’s territories taking sources of survival away from those with moral, social, and legal obligations. Women were then and remain today arbitrarily acting on a verbal claim: "men and women are equal". Ten years into the XXI century, women have not yet produced a shred of verifiable evidences to substantiate what they claim.
Should women arbitrarily and capriciously continue invading territories not intended for them ~and remain taking sources of survival away from those with mandatory obligations~ they are responsible for harmfully disturbing a natural course of life; and accountable for detrimentally affecting the subsistence of families which ~in turn~ they raise children with wrong values in anti-nature environments that believe that men and women are equal.
Altogether, families' unity, integrity, and right to succeed as intended by an almighty designer are seriously compromised because large numbers of women appear not be happy being human females; and so, they remain acting on a claim no one can substantiate: men and women are equal.
Since nature's designer has well-founded reasons assigning roles to humans ~as He does with animals~ it is then up to western women to recognize that there are unwanted, undesirable, and damaging consequences when they impose on men and children the price attached to shuffling roles with those of men, replicate, and mimic what men are meant to do.
When it comes to "men and women are equal", nature's mastermind
took the decision a long time ago; and His decison is not negotiable.
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Positive Expectancy – the Mindset of Achievers
An absolutely crucial ingredient toward the accomplishment of any worthwhile endeavor is the mindset that you can and will achieve the results you want. This is called Positive Expectancy.
To achieve the success you envision, you must believe that you are capable of making it happen. For some people, this deep-seated belief comes quite naturally. However, for many of us we frequently question our ability to ultimately succeed at accomplishing our dreams – lacking a sense of positive expectancy.
There are a variety possible reasons as to why we question that we can't or won't follow through with a desired objective. Perhaps we have allowed ourselves to absorb repeated negative comments over the years, or maybe we didn't receive a sufficient dose of positive reinforcement in our youth. Of course, there are numerous other potential reasons or excuses.
If you are one who needs to regroup and begin the process of taking back control of your outlook toward positive outcomes, the good news is that it is entirely possible. The bad news is that successful achievements simply won't happen unless you believe they are possible and make the commitment to passionately pursue your goals.
It may take awhile to condition yourself to develop a pattern of authentic positive expectancy, but it is most likely easier than you imagine. Once you accept that the brain responds to what it is conditioned to expect, then the process begins to make sense. For example, if one is conditioned to expect failure, one can also be conditioned to expect successful results.
Thomas Jefferson was right on target when he stated that, "Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal." Over time, Mr. Jefferson conditioned his mind to expect positive outcomes. He developed an attitude of thought that attracted positive results, people, and circumstances that supported the fulfillment of his goals. He nurtured self-belief and self-confidence. Developing "the right mental attitude" for successful outcomes is possible for each of us.
If the concept of truly believing that you are capable of achieving a major goal is a bit overwhelming, then begin with a smaller, more manageable objective and progress to a larger goal. Remember, each of us had to crawl before we could walk. Allow yourself the opportunity to develop a pattern of positive expectancy. With time, your mind will be conditioned to support you as if you have the wind at your back.
This week, next month, and the year ahead will unfold as you expect it will. In other words, if your outlook and belief system is positive and you genuinely expect like results, you are certainly going to realize greater personal fulfillment.
This does not mean that your pursuit will always be a bed of roses just because you positively expect that outcome. But, positive expectancy begets positive results more of the time and provides the foundation for overcoming challenges along the way.
Adversely, if you approach your life with the attitude that nothing will improve or that you are destined for a “Murphy’s Law” existence (what can go wrong will go wrong), that’s pretty much what you can expect.
It boils down to a powerful choice: positive expectancy or negative expectancy.
The person who practices the attitude of positive expectancy becomes proficient at turning problems into solutions, embraces responsibility as opportunity, and attacks adversity as an opportunity for learning and strengthening abilities and resolve. The depth of your success greatly depends upon your commitment to your positive expectations.
Here are 5 components that contribute to Positive Expectancy:
1. Clearly decide on what it is that you desire — be precise, write down details.
2. Use your imagination and consistently visualize the results you want.
3. Truly believe in your pursuit, no matter how many obstacles appear.
4. Enthusiastically take action and doggedly overcome challenges.
5. Be positive, expect the results you want.
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Inspiring Text Messages Are A Great Way To Start And Get Through The Day
It seems that stress is part of all of our lives. We all have situations that occur during the day that make getting through the day difficult. No matter what those factors are that try to push us to the edge there is a way to get through the day inspire of the stress. Inspiring text messages can help you stay focused and keep from letting external factors stress you out.
A good inspiring message can help you face the day and do so with a smile. Regardless of what your stress factors might be they can be overcome and looked past if you have the right mental attitude. Inspiring text messages can give that to you.
Should you end up in a face to face confrontation with frustration you should step back, walk away and get some air. A great way of getting a fresh outlook is to walk away and read the inspiring text messages.
There are several services that provide inspiring text messages. These services are all a little different and there is service that is best suited to your beliefs and attitudes. Some services even let you select the nature of the messages, so that you can control what the positive words are you receive each day.
Some services will also let you select what time of day you get the message. We all have that one time of day when we seem to be the most stressed out. For some of us it may be the commute to work or perhaps the commute back home. Setting your service up to get the inspiring messages at exactly the right time can help you keep a smile in the face of adversity.
You may want to research the service you choose so that you find an inspiring message that you can relates with. You may also want to make sure that the service you choose does not have an advertising service connected with it. These unexpected ads can be enough to ruin the moment you gained by the inspiring words.
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The Healing Power of Affirmations
The word 'affirmation' has its root in the Latin word 'firmus' which means 'solid, strong'. An affirmation is a confirmation, a substantiation, an assurance that a certain thought will materialize. Affirmations are like seeds representing certain themes in our life that we plant into our subconscious. When these seeds are correctly planted and nurtured, they will yield fruit.
Our thoughts are closely related to our ability to create and manifest positive affirmations. Thoughts are living things. Thoughts are energy, moving quickly and freely. Our thoughts radiate from us and influence our environment. Whatever we create is created first as a thought. Each manifestation of an idea is the result of a thought. The idea is the plan, which then creates the image in our mind from which our thoughts emanate to create their physical counterpart, being the manifestation of our idea.
Just like the plant, also thoughts, images and words function according to the spiritual principle of 'as ye reap ye shall sow', being the principle of cause and effect.
Our human ability to think, to create powerful images and to express ourselves through words is a precious gift holding a powerful force. Every thought and every image created in our head and every spoken word consciously or subconsciously influence our lives, our environment, and us.
By using our thoughts, images and words we can create disharmony and disruption or harmony and healing. Whatever the colors of our thoughts and words - be it positive, negative or neutral, these are the colors we will experience in life. The power of thought is a creative power which can be used either to build or to destroy, according to the intensity dedicated to a specific thought. Our present life is a mirror of our thoughts and words.
For most of us the process of thinking and the expression of thoughts is a matter-of-course, to such extent that we have never really consciously thought about our thoughts and are therefore unaware of the result of our thoughts and words.
Conscious and regular citing of affirmations heightens our senses and activates unknown potential within us. The following are eleven important guidelines for the correct use of affirmations, that -if followed- will help you to manifest abundance and tap into your hidden potentials.
* Avoid negative wordings like 'not', 'un', 'im'. Repeat your affirmation regularly, consciously and convincingly.
* Phrase your affirmations to reflect the present. Combine words, images and feelings.
* Phrase your affirmations to be short, clear and comprehensive
* Speak your affirmations out loud and repeat them mentally.
* Repeat your affirmations while you are in an Alpha state: Before you fall asleep and immediately when you wake up.
* Write your affirmation down and place them in different spots in your home as a reminder.
* Repeat your most important affirmations daily for a period of 21 days .
* Write your affirmations down in a journal
* Keep very personal affirmations secret .
* Combine affirmations with conscious breathing.
* Be aware of negative thoughts.
Sample Affirmations:
I am healthy.
I release all pain.
I am filled with vitality and health.
I am in control of my life and my health.
I have the energy to accomplish my goals.
I let go of old programs that keep me stuck in old patterns.
I accept healing of my mind, body and spirit from the Creator.
I have the time and energy to fulfill all my wants and needs.
I enjoy accepting material abundance.
I achieve my goals.
I am prosperous.
I deserve being successful in all aspects of my life.
I am a winner.
I feel safe in the presence of others.
I can say 'No' without losing other people's love.
I am now willing and ready to commit to a relationship.
I am willing to accept, share and give love.
I value myself.
I am respected.
I love myself.
I am gentle with myself.
I am creating the life I love.
I am confident in myself.
I am strong in body, mind and spirit.
I am open to the gifts of the Universe.
I allow abundance to flow through me.
I act with high intention and purposeful awareness.
I am in harmony with my life's purpose.
I am in perfect balance.
The more I receive, the easier it is for me to give to others.
Spiritual awareness is natural to me.
Success on all levels is a natural part of my being.
Success and abundance belong to my true nature.
My heart and my mind are in total balance.
It is easy for me to meet my ideal match.
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How to Become A Successful Leader
When you are at work, do you get frustrated because things don't seem to be happening the way they're supposed to be? You see people milling around but nothing gets accomplished. And in the daily hustle and bustle, do you feel that your goals remain just that - goals. Then maybe its time for you to stand up and do something about it.
Most people are content just to stand around listening for orders. And it isn't unusual to adopt a follow-the-leader mentality. But maybe, somewhere inside of you, you feel the desire to make things happen - to be the head, not the tail. Then maybe leadership just suits you fine.
Some people believe that great leaders are made, not born. Yes, it may be true that some people are born with natural talents. However, without practice, without drive, without enthusiasm, and without experience, there can be no true development in leadership.
You must also remember that good leaders are continually working and studying to improve their natural skills. This takes a commitment to constantly improve in whatever endeavor a person chooses.
First of all, let's define leadership. To be a leader, one must be able to influence others to accomplish a goal, or an objective. He contributes to the organization and cohesion of a group.
Contrary to what most people believe, leadership is not about power. It is not about harassing people or driving them using fear. It is about encouraging others towards the goal of the organization. It is putting everyone on the same page and helping them see the big picture of the organization. You must be a leader not a boss.
First of all, you have to get people to follow you. How is this accomplished?
People follow others when they see a clear sense of purpose. People will only follow you if they see that you know where you are going. Remember that bumper sticker? The one that says, don't follow me, I'm lost too? The same holds true for leadership. If you yourself do not know where you're headed to, chances are people will not follow you at all.
You yourself must know the vision of the organization. Having a clear sense of hierarchy, knowing who the bosses are, who to talk to, the organization's goals and objectives, and how the organization works is the only way to show others you know what you are doing.
Being a leader is not about what you make others do. It's about who you are, what you know, and what you do. You are a reflection of what you're subordinates must be.
Studies have shown that one other bases of good leadership is the trust and confidence your subordinates have of you. If they trust you they will go through hell and high water for you and for the organization.
Trust and confidence is built on good relationships, trustworthiness, and high ethics.
The way you deal with your people, and the relationships you build will lay the foundation for the strength of your group. The stronger your relationship, the stronger their trust and confidence is in your capabilities.
Once you have their trust and confidence, you may now proceed to communicate the goals and objectives you are to undertake.
Communication is a very important key to good leadership. Without this you can not be a good leader. The knowledge and technical expertise you have must be clearly imparted to other people.
Also, you can not be a good leader and unless you have good judgment. You must be able to assess situations, weigh the pros and cons of any decision, and actively seek out a solution.
It is this judgment that your subordinates will come to rely upon. Therefore, good decision-making is vital to the success of your organization.
Leaders are not do-it-all heroes. You should not claim to know everything, and you should not rely upon your skills alone.
You should recognize and take advantage of the skills and talents your subordinates have. Only when you come to this realization will you be able to work as one cohesive unit.
Remember being a leader takes a good deal of work and time. It is not learned overnight. Remember, also, that it is not about just you. It is about you and the people around you.
So, do you have the drive and the desire to serve required of leaders? Do you have the desire to work cooperatively with other people? Then start now. Take your stand and be leader today.
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The Keys to a Happy Retirement
Retirement is something that most people look forward to. The chance to take a break, to have all the time for yourself, to enjoy life after many years of hard work is indeed a very inviting prospect. However, financial instability makes the future of retirement a little bleak.
The Bleak Reality of Retirement
For many retirees, having an investment and savings can make a big difference when retirement arrives. In fact, recent surveys show that retirees today are only counting on their personal savings for support. Although the government gives Social Security, not all companies or employers provide traditional pensions for their employees. According to the Boston College Center for Retirement Research, in 2003 there were only 19% of workers who have traditional pensions to support them. This percentage continues to decline as more and more employers cut back pension plans for their employees.
Faced with this reality, it is clearly important to make the necessary preparations early in life to have reliable personal savings in the future. Investing in insurance, dividend-paying stocks, government bonds, corporate bonds, real estate, Treasury Inflation-Protected Securities (TIPS), immediate fixed annuities and retirement plans are great options on saving funds. This way, a retiree can have assurance that he will have the financial support he can rely on with or without a traditional pension.
Simple Living
Another thing that retirees need to carefully consider is the fact that they need to watch out their spending. Without a regular source of income and only their savings to support them, it would be very difficult if this support system will fall short. Thus, tempting as it may be to splurge or buy expensive things, this habit should be avoided. Simple living is the key. A retiree has to realize that having the necessities for daily living should be enough and there’s no need to live extravagantly even when he seems to have the resources.
Does this mean that retirees cannot earn a living anymore? Certainly not. Being an employee isn’t the only way to earn a living. There are other things that retirees can do, even in the comfort of their homes to give them additional budget. For example, freelance writing is a popular profession these days. With all their experiences in life, they can share so much through their writing and get paid at the same time. Other options can be vegetable gardening, making art works or crafts, or turning any hobby that they enjoy doing into a small business. Aside from getting extra income, doing activities that they enjoy can give them the sense of fulfillment and satisfaction.
Keeping A Positive Spirit
Financial matters are not the only important things in life. Of course, there’s nothing more important than our health and well-being. Retirees are prone to an inactive lifestyle and depression. That is why adequate exercise and a healthy diet are crucial. It is a proven fact that people who eat well and who have enough physical activity are more resistant against sickness and depression.
Keeping a positive spirit is also a tremendous help not only for the mind but for the body as well. Cultivate your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well-being will keep you happy as you enjoy the fruit of your labor on your retirement.
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Right and Wrong
Why do so many of us feel threatened when we come across some who has a conflicting opinion than us? Why do we get all defensive and feel rejected when someone doesn’t share the same point of view as us?
Can we all be right in what we choose to think? Or is anybody who has a different point of view automatically wrong?
Let’s take an example. Say someone likes the color red and someone else likes the color blue. They each like different colors so who is wrong? Nobody each is entitled to like whichever color they like. There is no right and wrong just whatever works for each person individually.
What happens if someone likes a particular political party and someone else likes a different one? Who is right and who is wrong? Because they each share differences of opinion can they respect each other?
Many feel so threatened that someone doesn’t think the same as they do that they will kill over it. This is what most wars are over – conflicting views of opinion.
Why cannot we feel secure enough in ourselves to not feel threatened when someone has a different point of view? It really is the rare person who can tolerate this.
Most will surround themselves by other people who think the same way they do. They then form groups that actively hate anybody that doesn’t agree with them.
It’s sad but this is sadly what most of us are like. Perhaps the world would be a safer place if more of us accepted diversity. That everyone can be right in their own world.
Because ultimately it doesn’t matter what is right or wrong. It’s just whatever works for each person individually.
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How To Find Words Of Inspiration
Let's face it, life comes with many ups and downs. Although it is difficult to do in order to be successful you need to not let the "downs" get to you.
These situations are inevitable from time to time, but if you let them make you feel bad you are only hindering yourself. Learn from the rough patches and always maintain a clear focus as to what you want in life. This will keep you inspired. It can help to learn words of inspiration to tell yourself in order to get through the trials and tribulations of life.
Inspire Others
Just as you can inspire yourself, imagine the power you can have in helping others in offering any kind of words of inspiration to cheer up others when they are having a hard time.
Inspire Yourself To Change
There no doubts those words of inspiration can help you overcome many types of bad feelings, such as disappointment, stress, anxiety and depression. There is perhaps nothing quite as soothing to the mind and body as listening to words of inspiration.
Words of inspiration can lift you up and keep you there on an otherwise bad day. Always remember that positive thinking brings positive results so you need to do whatever you can to stay in that "happy" state of mind all day. I know it may sound corny to some, but those people think to negatively to ever be successful.
Everyone has different wants and needs in life and you need to tailor your words of inspiration to what you want in life. If it is more money you want, you might say something like "money comes easily and frequently to me." Whenever you are feeling stressed about finances say this phrase to yourself over and over. It will inspire you and get rid of anxious or stressful thoughts.
If you desire more meaningful relationships you might use the phrase, "I deserve to find my soul mate and I will," etc. The important thing to remember about words of inspiration is that they need to be specifically tailored to your life.
I find many people who pray all day, but never really achieve any positive results from it. I am not knocking religion, but repeating standard phrases over and over again without real feeling and meaning for "you" will not produce results.
These words will do nothing, because they are not tailored to your life. They are a standard saying from a book. If there is a certain passage you really like just change a few of the words so the words of inspiration pertain specifically to your life, then watch your prayers come to life.
Inspire People At Work And In Life
With appropriately chosen words of inspiration, there is every possibility of connecting with others. The right words of inspiration can motivate, persuaded, and even coerce others into doing what is necessary. And, in case of the workplace, anything that helps in inspiring employees and co-workers would be welcome.
Don't Believe Words Of Inspiration Are Powerful - Remember Gandhi
One of the foremost exponents of words of inspiration was none other than the great Indian soul known as Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi, or Gandhi. Mahatma Gandhi inspired millions of Indians to follow and believe in him only through his words and way of thought.
Gandhi's sayings still inspire people not only from India, but all round the world. His writings and sayings were filled with so much inspiration that they swayed the masses into following his Civil Disobedience Movement that eventually led to the Independence of India from the British just sixty years ago.
You just can't argue the power of personal inspirational thought. It is the only way to deal with life's mishaps, which are nothing more than learning blocks on the road of life. It doesn't matter what words you choose to inspire yourself, just make sure they are specific to your life and situation and believe with all your heart that they are true.
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Is Your Life Manic, Mediocre or Joyful?
Life is not something that just "happens" to you randomly. You have an active role to play and can choose anything you wish to experience. Most will say their life is neither good nor bad, but mediocre.
Why do so many of us settle for complacency and dullness? Where is the excitement, joy and overwhelming feeling of passion?
You can tell the ones who live a truly joyful life because they stick out like a sore thumb - they are that rare. Everyone probably knows or has heard of someone like this.
They are the people who are always relaxed and hardly every stressed. Nothing at all seems to faze them and they seem so easy going all the time. Often they don't take life too seriously and focus on having fun.
Those of us who are watching these people from the outside may label them as irresponsible, uncaring and childish. Some would label them as being lucky to have found the true meaning of life.
To experience as much joy as possible into our life experiences. To understand the true nature of why we are here. Because most would agree we are not here to live an OK life and then die.
We are here to have the best time ever. If we can all remember to practice feeling happy more often we'll start to experience more happy things in our lives. We'll feel more joyful and so the upwards spiral continues.
There are some who feel guilty they are having fun while others are suffering. It helps no one - least of all those who are suffering if you prevent yourself from feeling joy. How it is helping them if you are miserable too?
Regardless of what is happening around you can become more and more joyful. And the more joyful you are, the more successfully you will live your life.
Because joy is the measuring factor of a successful life. It really is.
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